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Hindsight is 2020

 This year is drawing to a close and only one word can describe it:  unprecedented .  Every year I set myself an army of goals but in 2020 I quickly realised that I needed to adjust my expectations.  The first sign of the potential apocalypse this year was the Australian bushfires.  Just as the smoke had cleared came the first news of COVID-19 and the pandemic that would sweep the world.  I immediately jumped to calm leadership mode. I knew because of my disability I had to keep my family and myself safe but I also wanted to help those suffering. So I dramatically increased my social media presence posting uplifting messages.  I felt that just the pictures weren’t cutting through enough so I moved to Phase 2 of my plan which was to create a series of videos drawing on my life living with a disability and the lessons it has taught me.  To keep myself calm during the peak times of stress in the pandemic I turned to literature. I started 2020 by read...

Leading Disability (International Day of People with a Disability 2020)

 Celebrating International Day of People with a Disability is something I’ve been looking forward to for months because this year I have made it my mission to focus on great community leaders with a disability.  My social media feeds in 2020 are full of people I have decided to model myself after.  This all started when I learned about Amberley Synder, a kick arse rodeo cowgirl who hasn’t let her disability stop her. Apart from her awesomeness on the rodeo circuit her motivational speaking blew me away.  Then I started to hear about Kyle Maynard, a wrestler and MMA fighter with a disability. Kyle is proof that there is a fighter in all of us.  Then of course no list of great leaders with a disability would be complete without talking about my man Dylan Alcott who continues to smash it on the tennis court, in the media, and as an entrepreneur.  Being a poet, public speaker, political activist, and professional actor, I of course cannot forget the leaders wit...

Social Justice Swept Away

It is right that there has been an extraordinary focus on the coronavirus in 2020 but it is still important to pay attention to social justice.  Many governments around the world, including Australia, have been using the pandemic as cover to shift focus away from important social justice, humanitarian and environmental work. One glaring example of something our government has tried to get passed is the cut to the number of refugees we will accept each year just so they can save the budget 1.8 billion dollars.  This policy does not make any sense considering one of the key indicators for getting the country out of recession is population growth. We should be taking in more refugees not less.  This decision by the Morrison government is exacerbated by yet more cuts to foreign aid.  Social justice for refugees is something we must continue to fight for and if you have any doubt about this you should watch the ABC series Stateless. A story inspired by true events that to...

We Made Complaints Sexy

When I started working with the Disability Services Commission (DSC) Capacity Building Team we had the daunting task of making complaints sexy and I believe we succeeded. I was very proud to be a part of such a unique organisation because Victoria was the first state in Australia to have a separate disability complaints body.  This allowed people with disability's voice to be separated from the crowd and amplified so we could be heard out loud.  The DSC and I were able to make people with disabilities and disability service providers see that complaints were a positive thing and not a negative.  It was incredibly gratifying to see the amount of complaints going up each year. I know that sounds weird to say but to me it meant people with disabilities were speaking up more.  The Disability Service Commission didn't just use pretty words, the culture within the office was also inclusive as a matter of fact for the first time in my life I felt truly equal with all my DSC...

Disability Sexuality Advocate and LGBT+ Ally

In my years as a disability sexuality advocate I have been taught the importance of making sure disabled people of all sexuality backgrounds are represented. This is what has made me a LGBT+ ally.  Every year I am asked to speak to disability organisations, universities, and more about the topic of sexuality; and although I do not know what it’s like to be a part of the LGBT+ community, my disability has given me an insight into some of the negativity around sexuality that exists in our society.  I have been told: 'How dare I be attracted to an able bodied woman? Shouldn’t I just stick to my own type?’  In my life I have had many friends with disabilities from the LGBT+ community and a number of them have been told that their disability has made things complicated enough, why would they want to add the extra complication of being gay on top of it?  Sexuality is not a choice. It is simply a fundamentally human instinct and disability or not we all deserve the right to...

R U OK? Day (My Snakes and Ladders Mind)

This year's R U OK? Day is more important than ever before.  Mental health is something that should be talked about on a regular basis and with current statistics indicating that anxiety has increased up to 40 percent due to COVID-19.  Having someone check in is a simple way for us all to help each other.  On a personal note, I know that I have stopped a panic attack a day during the COVID-19 crisis thanks to the support of my family.  It is time we get rid of the stigma attached to mental health.  People don’t look at me funny when I take pain killers for my pain. So in my opinion the same curtesy should be extended to people seeking treatment for mental health conditions.  This R U OK? Day take the time to ask just one person if they are okay because you never know if you might be the person who helps them climb out of their snakes and ladders mind.  My Snakes and Ladders Mind How fast my thoughts make my head run until I think my brain might start t...

Victorian Disability Worker Commission: Standard Bearer

Victoria once again is a leading light in disability services with the establishment and opening of the Disability Worker Commission on the first of July 2020.  The Commission will receive and investigate complaints about disability workers.  VDWC will focus on complaints and breaches of disability standards and code of conduct by support staff while the NDIS Quality and Safeguard Commission focuses on complaints about disability service organisations and NDIS funded supports.  "People with a disability have a right to strong safeguards for services they rely on. That's why we're building a stronger, safer disability sector in Victoria." said Dan Stubbs, Victorian Disability Worker Commissioner.  In my thirty-seven plus years living with a disability I have seen, heard, and experienced the best and worst of disability care. In the current health crisis and with recent high profile abuse and neglect cases, it is more important than ever that people with disabilities a...